Monday, 21 May 2012

FTK Blog: Life goes on… but how to deal with it?

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I must be mad, or just deluded, either way I have only just emerged from the gloom that descended after the defeat by the scum on Saturday. I know that I am probably not alone in dealing with defeat in this manner.  I went into denial, a state of shock and disbelief. But how else can one surf the roller coaster of emotions without coming down to earth with a very large bump? If a thousand other Gooners and me feel like this, then what on earth must the players feel like. I was very angry on Saturday night, I recall flashbacks of me screaming “Bale!… watch Bale!” but it was to no avail. Like other occasions in the game Denilson had his Brazilian blinkers on as players just coasted past him. On the TV replays it looks even worse. Denilson glances at Bale, before allowing him to make his run on the blind side to finish the goal.

Now I know why I don’t and never will rate Denilson. But this blog is not about slating one player. That will not make me or any true Arsenal fan feel any better.  Perhaps it was absence of passion in all of the players when we slipped to 2-2 that said it all. It was an accident waiting to happen, and when it did, the knots in my stomach tightened still further, and I slipped into a fit of depression.  Now how would those post trauma counsellors deal with this scenario? The good old fashioned see it as the glass being half full not half empty. Well excuse me guys, we seemed to be running on half empty, not half full. Yet look at the Premiership table. We are only 2 points behind, if we beat Man U and Chelsea and match them in all other results, then the title is ours. Simple isn’t it?So we could be real title contenders before Xmas…

Let’s look at the glass being half empty, we lose to Man U and Chelsea and fail to match them for other results and finish third or even fourth if Man City continue their run. That cannot happen surely? So here’s to the glass being half full. But on Saturday’s performance, beating Chelsea and Man U in the same month seems very unlikely. It is said that life goes on, but how to deal with it is the challenge.  This is why we must continue to trust in Arsene Wenger. He has produced results before and will do so again. The roller coaster of emotion is well known to Gooners. Tonight we play Braga, without van Persie or Arshavin. Let’s hope the players drafted in to replace them, show some desire, some passion. A will to win. We have run out of excuses, the goalkeeper, the loss of Vermaelen, the absence of a sky scraper centre back. All we  now have left is our faith. Our belief in the red and white and what it stands for. Let’s hope there are players on the pitch who think the same…

 

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Fabregas_The_King

Tony aka FTK co founded Arsenalinsider.com in November 2006. often found on the site having a rant about the topic of the day.

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  • DANTHEHOTSPURSMAN

    ARSENAL 2 TOTTENHAM HOTSPURS 3

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  • Fabregas_The_King

    [quote name=DANTHEHOTSPURSMAN]ARSENAL 2 TOTTENHAM HOTSPURS 3[/quote] This is why life goes on….

    good man Dan, keep the fires that burn for revenge burning.

    At the end of the season, let’s see who will still be in the Champions League next season eh?

    Plus how will you afford to buy the commemorative DVDs for each goal scored plus get a new stadium?

    Ahhh… poor things. It has made your season, beating The Gunners.

    Dream on you scum, Harry will lead you nowhere but to the Europa league….lol

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  • yidal

    This defeat hit you lot like a ton of bricks – perhaps you will be a little more humble from now on when you win – knowing that defeat again is a little more likely in the following NLD’s.

    2 NLD’s in a row – who would have though eh : )

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  • John in Norfolk

    I’m in a serious quandary, I love to watch Arsenal’s fantastic style of play. The slick passing, the movement, the ball control and the sheer brilliance of it all…when it comes together. Unfortunately this is where I reach my dilemma. I cannot enjoy the match as a whole!

    I just know that something is going to go wrong.

    On Saturday I sat in front of the telly, alongside my Spurs supporting wife, and thoroughly enjoyed the first half but at the back of my mind I could almost feel the doubt creeping in.

    Boy, did it go wrong!

    Tonight I’m going along to The British Legion Club to play cribbage, they don’t have Sky so I wont be able to watch the game live. I shall record it and, probably, only watch it if Arsenal do not lose.

    Cowardly? maybe. It’s the anxiety that I can’t take.

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  • DANTHEHOTSPURSMAN

    AHHHHHRRR U POOR GOONERS… FEELIN SORRY FOR UR SELVES R WE?
    FACE DA FACTS!… A NEW ERA STARTED ON SATURDAY AND THAT IS TOTTENHAM HOTSUR!… GET OVER IT… ARSENAL R ON DA DECLINE. OFFICIAL!
    THAT WIN PROVED TO US AND U THAT SPURS WILL DOMINATE FOR YEARS TO COME…..AND IT FEELS SOOOOOO….SOOOOOO GOOOOD!

    C’MON U SSSPPPUUURRRSSS!!!!!

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  • KingHarry

    Hopefully the Arsenal of Portugal will ease past Basil Fawlty’s muppets and leave North London’s shame on the brink of a CL exit while North London’s pride – the CL winners in waiting continue their march to Wembley with a 5-0 success over Werder on Wednesday.

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  • StratfordSpur

    Tottenham’s first win at the arsenal for 17 years…50 years since you won the league…you will always be in the shadow of the mighty arsenal and i think you know it as well :-)

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  • Fabregas_The_King

    YIDS YIDS simmer down…!

    You’ve got a cheek!

    You beat us once and now you’re going to win the Champions League and The Premier League?

    You lot have had more false comings than the Sultan of Dubai’s Enuch!!!

    If I had a pound for everytime you scum exaggerate a victory, I’d be a millionaire…

    Remember ARSEHOLES,

    FORM IS TEMPORARY…….
    CLASS IS PERMANENT!

    Place your bets on you staying in the top six let alone 4….lol

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  • Fabregas_The_King

    Yidal

    The mighty Spurs?

    Will you be humble at the end of the season when you scrape it into the Europa league…hahahahahahaha

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  • R-SEN

    I too have been in denial for days and only today have I bothered reading the blogs. As bad as it was for us on Saturday, can you imagine feeling like that for 17 years??? how hard must that have been?

    Arsenal won’t win anything this year so lets not kid ourselves but instead just laugh at the fact that we have quite possibly the worst team we’ve had in years. A bunch of fairies who are not only mentally weak but also too stupid to learn from prior mistakes yet somehow we continue to finish above the super spurs and even now sit 4 points ahead of them.

    That’s got to count for something!!!

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  • Alzinho

    Funny how the old Spuds always get ahead of themselves.

    We’ve been hearing about this shift in power for years now. Arsenal have failed because we haven’t won anything for 5 years, but we have finished above Spuds for that same time and even after Saturday, we’re still above them in the League. How exactly does this indicate that the knuckle draggers will dominate for years to come?

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  • Fabregas_The_King

    I know exactly how you feel J.I.N

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  • Fabregas_The_King

    WTF???

    You scum are on planet Cuckoo….

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  • Fabregas_The_King

    Well said! my good man.

    Like the piss take with the handle!

    North London is ours…
    North London is ours….ours
    Fcuk off to Stratford,
    North London is OURS!!!!

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  • Fabregas_The_King

    Great words R-sen! :-)

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  • Fabregas_The_King

    Its called DELUSIONS Alzinho,

    Thats why they wear white.

    People in white strait jackets who have escaped from the ASYLUM!!!

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  • DANTHEHOTSPURSMAN

    DA DIFFERENCE BETWEEN US AND U LOT IS U HOPE TO WIN…WHERE AS WE KNOW WE WILL WIN AND THAT INCLUDES A GOAL FEST 2MORROW NITE AGAINST WERDER AND A HUMILIATING THRASHING OF LIVERPOOL ON SUNDAY WHICH WILL SEND DA SCOUSERS BACK WITH THERE TAILS BETWEEN THERE LEGS!!!

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  • DANTHEHOTSPURSMAN

    ARE U CONFIDENT OF WINNING UR NEXT 5 HOME GAMES THAN….???? EH?????
    NAFF SAID NOW SHUT UP!!!!

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  • Fabregas_The_King

    hHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA…..

    BREATHE….

    HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA……

    Promise me Dan that you will be back here on here to celebrate after your prediction.

    I’m going to put money on a Scum defeat!

    The easiest money I am ever going to make at the Bookies!

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  • gooner66

    you will have to pay for your new stadium and you will have no cash 4 players and when the new fifa transfer rules come into action you wont be able to spend what you hav’nt got arsenal will be the best financialy twat

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  • slohintrainin

    let the yids gloat after all opportunities for them dont come that often it will only make it sweeter when as usual they finish below us and we resume normal results in the nld by humiliating them for the next 17 years.

    on a lighter note aaron ramsey completed 45 min for the reserves good luck rambo cant wait to see you rippin up the prem soon enough!

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  • DANTHEHOTSPURSMAN

    NO PROBS! ILL BE HERE LIKE I SAID I WOUD BE BEFORE WHEN I PREDICTED A GREAT SPURS 3-2 VICTORY AND WON £40 AT DA BOOKIS…GETTIN THERE!
    IVE ACTULY GOT £50 ON SPURS TO WIN DA CHAMPIONS LEAGE… AND IM FINKIN OF PUTTIN ANOTHER £10 ON THRASHING LIVERPOOL 4-0 ON SUNDAY COZ I GOT A STRONG FEELIN ON THAT ONE… ILL AVE TO CHECK DE ODDS!

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  • pedd

    wenger out any arsenal fan who stands for this muck knows nothing about football and take sulky fabregas with him

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  • Andy

    I wonder what shite excuse we’ll get this time, or maybe it’ll be another “I don’t know what went wrong”/”it’s difficult to explain how we lost”…
    …2-dimenstional uninspiring football, with a distinct lack of ideas and commitment…

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